Pillow Talk

When your head hits the pillow, don't close your eyes, open your mouth.

That's what Ian Kerner, Ph.D. suggests. “If couples aren’t talking and approaching sex with a sense of play then they’re going to fall into a pattern of routine,” saysthe author of She Comes First and He Comes Next. “The brain is the biggest sex organ.”

Commit to 15 minutes of pillow talk a few nights a week—no TV, no laptops and no BlackBerries. Take this time to discuss your fantasies, desires or romantic memories. Remember your hot honeymoon? Remember it together and talk about other times you've enjoyed together.